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Robyn, after reading this second part about invisibility, I wondered - have you ever asked the students about this? I wonder what they would say if you told them the kinds of things you hear - what sense they would make of it. It might make a great discussion - or a memorable one, maybe? Iā€™m curious too šŸ™‚

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Powers of invisibility? Just get older : )

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Apr 5Liked by Robyn Ryle

I suspect there's a lot less hand washing in the men's room.

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Apr 5Liked by Robyn Ryle

I too wash my hands differently since the pandemic. Yes, between my fingers, and all the rest you mentioned. I feel some shame that I wasnā€™t always that meticulous and am probably responsible for some kind of mini pandemic right here in Madison for all those years preceding Covid.

As for civil inattention, Iā€™m not like others

My kids used to be mortified to walk with me down a city street because I usually speak to strangers along the way. Ma'am! I strike up conversations with strangers all the time, particularly here in Madison when I encounter a tourist. Guess thatā€™s why Iā€™m the Goddess, huh?

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So interesting, thank you

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Apr 6Liked by Robyn Ryle

Hahahaha

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Apr 6Liked by Robyn Ryle

I have been trained pretty vigorously (both active training and just trauma responding) to be able to disappear in crowds. Essentially become invisible. As you know, I can hear everything around me all the time. Always. I scan a room and absorb most of what I see, too.

Itā€™sā€¦ maddening.

But I have to admit that the ability to actually be the fly on the wall is pretty cool (though, admittedly, creepy).

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