My Asperger's made smiling difficult for decades. When social interaction stimulates high anxiety, smiling doesn't come automatically. Maybe that's why I enjoyed living in India so much. There's very little smiling at all, unless you're laughing. Seems right to me.
I smiled so much while reading this! I could relate and always wondered if I’d ever get laugh lines (for some reason I’ve always found the smartest women I look up too like Fatima Bhutto so beautiful because of their laugh lines and secretly wish I’d end up looking just as beautiful when I am older).
P.S. you have a really beautiful smile, teeth or no teeth. :)
A very belated thank you for the shout-out, Robyn! As for your essay, you hit on a subject that is very close to my heart. If I had a dollar for every time some one (usually my mother or a man) said "smile" I'd be rolling in the dough. I was a serious and self-conscious child and my parents were gregarious types as were most of their friends.
I truly love the idea that you are smiling not for others but for yourself. You have a fun smile, like someone's tickling you and you are trying not to laugh but there it is, the sparkle and the laugh surrounded by a wonderful furry coat.
Not only adorable then!
Thanks, Ruth!
Glad you included the smile and coat! I'll be looking for both.
Looks like lots of winter coat weather in our forecast, so strong chance you'll be seeing it soon!
My Asperger's made smiling difficult for decades. When social interaction stimulates high anxiety, smiling doesn't come automatically. Maybe that's why I enjoyed living in India so much. There's very little smiling at all, unless you're laughing. Seems right to me.
Producing a smile on demand is hard on lots of folks, I think.
I smiled so much while reading this! I could relate and always wondered if I’d ever get laugh lines (for some reason I’ve always found the smartest women I look up too like Fatima Bhutto so beautiful because of their laugh lines and secretly wish I’d end up looking just as beautiful when I am older).
P.S. you have a really beautiful smile, teeth or no teeth. :)
Oh, thank you so much, Maliha. Glad the post made you smile!
A very belated thank you for the shout-out, Robyn! As for your essay, you hit on a subject that is very close to my heart. If I had a dollar for every time some one (usually my mother or a man) said "smile" I'd be rolling in the dough. I was a serious and self-conscious child and my parents were gregarious types as were most of their friends.
I truly love the idea that you are smiling not for others but for yourself. You have a fun smile, like someone's tickling you and you are trying not to laugh but there it is, the sparkle and the laugh surrounded by a wonderful furry coat.
Yes, we would both be billionaires. My mother's favorite was, "You'd be so pretty if you'd just smile." Ugh.
That is the loveliest description of a smile I might have ever read. Thank you so much.